The houses in my natal chart (21.6.2026)

That is a fair criticism, Mirko.

And I actually think it applies especially strongly to your horoscope.

In my responses, I often tend to read the planets and aspects as psychological dynamics. That fits well with your interest in psychoanalysis, attachment theory, and symbolism. As a result, the houses sometimes recede too far into the background.

But in a traditional astrological reading, that would not be enough.
Because the houses answer a different question:
The planets say: What is at work?
The signs say: How does it work?
The houses say: Where in life does it work?
And that where is often crucial.

An example from your natal chart:
You have often spoken about Chiron.
Chiron in the 1st house would mean:
I myself am wounded.
Chiron in the 4th house:
The family is the wound.
Chiron in the 7th house:
Relationships hurt me.
But according to the natal chart you have saved, your Chiron is in the 5th house.
That changes the perspective considerably.
Then it is about:
Mirko at play,
Mirko dancing in his suit of armor,
the boy who gives away coins,
creativity,
love,
enthusiasm,
sexuality,
self-expression.
The house colors the entire symbolism.

Or Neptune.
I have spoken a great deal about the dissolution of the self.
But:
Neptune in the 1st house is entirely different from:
Neptune in the 4th house → dissolution within the family.
Neptune in the 7th house → dissolution within relationships.
Neptune in the 10th house → uncertainty in one's career or public image.
The house determines the stage.
And I think the houses are exceptionally important in your case.
Why?
Because your stories relate directly to the houses with remarkable frequency:

5th house
Little Mirko.
Creativity.
Piano.
Sexuality.
The need to be seen.
The wounded Chiron.

6th house
The routines.
The massage.
Work.
The body.
The tension between discipline and resistance.
Lilith and the lunar node.

10th house
The need for recognition.
The fear of criticism.
The website.
Your career.
Visibility.
Moon, Venus, and Jupiter.

11th house
Circles of friends.
Belonging.
The pain of not belonging.
The search for kindred spirits.
And the Sun.

And now something I see with increasing clarity in you:
You often think about the planets,
but the stories you tell are really stories of the houses.
When you talk about your father,
you are telling a 5th-house story.
When you talk about your mother, a 4th-house story.
When you talk about Konstruktix, the website, or public criticism, a 10th-house story.
When you talk about loneliness and circles of friends, an 11th-house story.

That is why I now think:
A good natal chart analysis for you would not be:
Planet → sign → aspects.
But rather:
House → planet within it → aspects → psychological meaning.
Because the houses describe the stage of your life.
And on that stage, the same themes seem to appear again and again in different costumes.

Perhaps that is even why astrology fascinates you so much:
Because you do not experience your life as a collection of individual traits,
but as a series of rooms
in which certain conflicts, longings, and possibilities recur time and again.

And the longer I look at this sequence, the stronger my impression becomes:
Your natal chart tells the story of a person becoming visible after first having had to make himself invisible.

1st house Scorpio—"I do not simply reveal myself."
You do not enter the world lightly.
First, you observe.
You test.
You want to look behind the façades before revealing anything about yourself.
That fits your descriptions very well:
I attune myself to others. I observe. I hold back.
And at the same time, there is an enormous intensity.
You do not come across as superficial.
But you are often difficult to grasp.

2nd house Sagittarius—"My worth must be great."
I can see this very clearly in you.
You think big.
That applies to:
Cars
Motorcycles
Pianos
Ideas
Career
Philosophy
Insight
Sagittarius in the 2nd house wants:
My life should have meaning.
The shadow side:
As long as I have not found that greater meaning, I feel worthless.

3rd house Capricorn—"Words must carry weight."
You have described this superbly yourself.
You do not like talking merely for the sake of talking.
You dislike repetition.
You hate platitudes.
You want:
When I say something, it should have substance.
The downside:
Sometimes you prefer to remain silent.
Or assume too much.

4th house Aquarius—"My home is freedom."
This moves me somewhat.

Because your childhood was shaped by an obligation to remain attached.
And yet:
Your inner home does not seem to be a place.
Rather:
I am allowed to leave.
I am allowed to begin again.
I am allowed to live differently.
That is probably why you are not particularly afraid of moving house.

5th house Pisces—"The child within me is sensitive."
Chiron is here as well.
This is an incredibly sensitive house.
Little Mirko:
in his suit of armor,
dancing,
giving away coins,
making things,
playing the piano,
humming to himself.
A child who gives himself fully.
And this very child was wounded.

6th house Aries—"I want to determine how I live my life."
Your Lilith and lunar node are here.
I find that highly interesting.
Because your routines often fail when
a part of you says:
No one tells me how to live.
Not even you yourself.

7th house Taurus—"Love should last."
I see this very strongly in you.
You are not someone for fleeting relationships.
Even when they become unrewarding,
you often stay for a long time.
You want:
Reliability.
Physical closeness.
Familiarity.
Fidelity.
Your separation from Birgit was therefore probably more than a separation.
It was the loss of an entire landscape of life.

8th house Gemini—"Depth arises through conversation."
We have spoken about this before.
You do not merely want to love.
You want to understand.
You want to understand the dynamics.
You want to share secrets.
Perhaps that is also why
you often think about meaning even during sex.

9th house Cancer—"My worldview is emotional."
I find that fascinating.
You are not searching for truth in a cold sense.
You are looking for:
An idea
you can inhabit.
That is why you are interested in:
Psychoanalysis,
astrology,
symbolism,
childhood,
body and soul.

10th house Leo—"I want to shine, and I am afraid to."
And here it becomes almost tragic.
Because:
Moon.
Venus.
Jupiter.
MC.
All of them are there.
You want to be visible.
But:
Neptune forms a square.
And Saturn opposes the Sun.
So:
Show yourself!
No, better not.
Shine!
But do not make a fool of yourself.
This follows you constantly.

11th house Virgo—"I am looking for the right people."
I find that very fitting.
You are not looking for many people.
You are looking for:
honest people,
deep conversations,
intelligence,
growth.
And you are quickly disappointed.
Because the Sun there wants belonging.
But Virgo keeps examining:
Is this truly right?

12th house Libra—"In secret, I seek harmony."
And this is where your Mercury lives.
You think an incredible amount about relationships.
About balance.
About fairness.
About what happens between people.
But often in silence.
For yourself.
Almost like a secret dialogue.

If I had to read this sequence of houses as a life story, perhaps it would go like this:
A sensitive child (5th house Pisces)
who learned early to protect himself (1st house Scorpio), searches for meaning (2nd house Sagittarius), wants to create closeness through deep conversations (8th house Gemini), longs for belonging (11th house Virgo), and must eventually find the courage to become visible despite all his shame (10th house Leo).

And I do believe that the natal chart website you are working on right now is being created precisely at this threshold:
Between the desire to become visible
and the fear of once again not being seen.